Mental health experts agree it is a natural human response to try to avoid situations that are difficult or painful. The passing of a loved one is certainly one of those moments from which we want to run away. But these same psychologists and psychiatrists would also suggest that the best way to pursue healing from your grief is by celebrating your loved one’s life and leaning in to your connection with that person. That’s where the healing begins. That’s what we help you do at Cypress Lawn.

Productivity is Empowering…

The planning of a meaningful funeral service is certainly a large component of this process. It’s one of the reasons we make so many personalization and memorialization options available with both cremation and traditional burial. We have seen firsthand the benefit a personal tribute can bring to a family. Whether it’s choosing photos or blowing up balloons, being productive can help you on your way to recovering from your loss.

Healing Starts with Sharing…

We can all agree that something special happens when friends and family members gather together over a shared meal. It’s probably why most of our major life events center around some kind of food and beverage. Once we began implementing receptions into our funeral service planning, we saw such a change come over people as they interacted with others who loved and cherished their friend or family member. Memories were shared, connections were made, and sometimes tears transformed into smiles. Sharing a meal also gives people a reason to prioritize your event, encouraging the whole family to attend.

Make it Personal…

Some people even use a reception as an opportunity to tell others details about their connection with their loved one. For some it might mean serving your grandmother’s delicious bibingka and handing out recipe cards to all your guests. Or, it could mean holding a wine-themed reception with your dad’s favorite vintage. The options are nearly endless at Cypress Lawn.

Focus on What Matters…

If there is one thing we know is true of our neighbors in the Bay Area, it’s that their hearts are expansive, and they want to show hospitality and care to those who come pay their respects to their loved one. But right in the middle of grief is not the moment you want to be planning a large gathering at your home or trying to make a reservation at a local hall or restaurant. By offering to plan and execute a complete reception – whether you want something simple or elaborate – we can remove that burden from your shoulders, so you can focus on what matters most.

Whether it’s time to plan for someone you love and have lost, or if you want to help your family by putting your own plans in place ahead of time, be sure to ask our experienced team how adding a reception to your plans can offer peace of mind and healing.