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Lillian M. Flahavan

Jun 14, 1932 – May 17, 2024

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Lillian Mary Flahavan died peacefully on May 17, 2024. She was preceded in death by her loving husband of 58 years, Stephen Flahavan, her parents Joseph and Domenica Vassallo, her brothers Jim, Charlie and Paul Vassallo, and sister Toni Skalko. She is survived by her adoring daughter, Stephanie Flahavan. Lillan was a devoted aunt, godmother, in-law, cousin, neighbor, friend and Our Lady of Angels parishioner.

Family and friends are invited to a funeral mass celebrated at 10 a.m. Wednesday, May 29, 2024 at Our Lady of Angels Catholic Church, Burlingame. Private interment at Holy Cross Catholic Cemetery, Colma. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations are gratefully appreciated to the Capuchin Franciscan Retired Friar Foundation, 1345 Cortez Avenue, Burlingame, California 94010 or Mission Hospice, 66 Bovet Road, Ste100, San Mateo, CA 94402.

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