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Mary Esther Higgins

May 18, 1948 – May 18, 2025

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Mary Higgins
May 18, 1948 – May 18, 2025

Mary Higgins, of Pinole, California, passed away peacefully on May 18, 2025—on her 77th birthday—surrounded by the love of her family.

Born in Delano, California, Mary lived a life filled with laughter, connection, and cherished routines. One of her greatest joys was playing bingo—a favorite pastime that brought her happiness, community, and more than a few wins over the years. Whether it was a regular night at her local bingo hall or a spontaneous outing with friends and family, Mary was always ready with her lucky markers and a smile.

She also loved traveling with her family, going out to eat, and savoring life’s little indulgences—especially dessert. Her warmth and generous spirit made everyone feel welcome, and her presence brought comfort and joy to those around her.

She joins her husband, Frank Sr., and her son, Frankie, who preceded her in death.

Mary is lovingly remembered by her family: Dolores (Lola) & John, Michelle & Kevin, Priscilla & Hil, Nicholas, Christopher, Isabel, Gabrielle, Alonzo, and Annalyn—as well as by many dear friends who became extended family. Her spirit lives on in the memories they hold, the stories they share, and the laughter she inspired.

Mary’s love, humor, and unbeatable bingo game will be dearly missed and forever treasured.

Memories

  • Jasmine rice…

    Jasmine Rice I have a gift and curse of having a vivid memory of my a life that spans back to when I was just two years old. Between 2 & 7 years of age I occasionally heard a womans voice in the room when there was a gathering of what would be known as family time. I remember understanding Tagalog and English and finding warmth in a well-spoken woman who appeared to be the focus of the room when we were at the family gatherings. This voice would occasionally call out sharply… Especially when she would call the name NICHOLAS! she would say things without shouting but an exclamation was never necessary. If you heard your name from Auntie Marys mouth you listened up and needed to acknowledge and help if needed or knock off whatever you were doing… (a strong memory I have that, my cousin Nicholas would put his hands and legs on opposing walls in the hallway and climb up to the ceiling of the hallway way overhead and his distinctive giggle would give away that he was up to something and by my account about 8 Up above the ground.) The smell of jasmine rice and the chatter about bingo, mahjong, and complex gossip that always seemed to be absolute truths while rolling lumpia, and preparing BIKO. The adobo, pancit, and sinigang… were ready to be served and when it was time to eat, we all ate as a family. I would hear my name…
  • Mother’s Day

    We were all so excited, her first day pass from the rehab center. We pushed her wheelchair to the local sushi bar. She didnt want pics cuz her hair wasnt dyed. I am so glad I insisted…little did we know it would be our last Mothers day together.
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