William Eng
Oct 14, 1964 – Nov 24, 2023
Sneider & Sullivan & O'Connell's
William Eng was born in Hong Kong and came to the US at 1 years old. He lived in NY Chinatown and attended St. Joseph’s school and attended Xavier ROTC High School. William completed his computer science Bachelor’s degree from St. John’s University in Queens, NY.
Friends and family in NY called him William. In California we called him Bill. Bill moved to San Mateo in 1993 when his job in NYC transferred him here. Bill worked as a software engineer with the US Postal Service and several other companies before his most current job at Sutter Health, providing IT support for many hospital systems. Bill was passionate about his work and about enjoying life.
He was a devoted husband and best friend to his wife Carolin. And a devoted father to the 2 joys in his life – his daughter Julianna (Juju and ‘pumpkin’) and his 4 legged furry daughter Taylor (his constant companion). He was the most loyal friend who was always there to help and support his friends. And to dine with them.
His favorite past time was long walks with his family to new places in search of new foods to try. Bill’s passion was volleyball with Juju, cooking, trying new restaurants with friends, buying new gadgets, watching cooking and engineering videos. He was inquisitive and curious about everything.
Bill will be remembered for his family values, integrity, unselfish heart, his loyalty and generosity, fun youthful spirit and always there to help others and never expecting anything back.
Bill is reunited now with his beloved father, David. He is survived by his mother Kwan Yin, his wife Carolin, his daughter Julianna, his stepson Edmond, his sister Jeannie, his brother Steven and many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins.
We will miss your wise guy, snarky, witty sense of humor and that sparkly crinkle in your eyes when you laugh.
Rest in peace. We miss you and love you so much. Till we meet again.
Funeral services were held on December 3, 2023.
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Memories
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Thank you Bill
Thank you Bill for your love, the memories and all the wonderful years!
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Bill's favorite things to do
Here are a few pictures of Bill doing his favorite things with us on Saturdays
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Lifelong Brother
I met Bill 30+ years ago at Executive Air Fleet. We both worked in IT and had a shared interest in technology. He introduced me to his childhood friends Chun, Joey and Paulie from NYC. As with Bill, they in turn became lifelng friends with me. Over the years we shared trips, visited n CA, attended each others weddings and celebrated life events along the way. In short, he was a brother and I will miss him. John LeGoff
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Thinking of Bill …
I cant believe Bill is gone. When you depend on someone so much you really cant bear to let them go. There are many wonderful words I could use to describe him and dependable is one of them. I could always depend on Bill to be taking amazing care of Carolin and JuJu. I could depend on Bill to make me laugh with his quick wit and sweet smile. What I will remember so fondly is that whenever Bill smiled there was a cute, secretive sense to it and his eyes smiled too like a young boy who had gotten away with something. Im really going to miss those smiling eyes and they will always live on in my memory of him. Our family has known Bill and Carolin for twenty years, meeting at Teacher Jolenes class through Beresford Parks and Rec. where Julianna and Sawyer took their first class together. JuJu was a bright light always, always smiling and we couldnt stop looking at her because she was just so happy. From there started our beautiful family relationship. JuJu and Sawyer loved dancing together, Bill and Chris loved going to horror or action movies together, and Carolin and I loved just being together and talking for hours and hours. And, of course, we all loved getting together for dinners, no occasion necessary. When I think of Bill Im always going to picture him with that enormous fanny pack around his waist holding every kind of item that could be… -
To Uncle Bill
Uncle Bill was like a a second dad to me, especially in the 7 years I played volleyball with Juju. He would always drive us to volleyball practices, games, and tournaments, often in the company of my dad too. The four of us were known as the two iconic father-daughter duos at anything volleyball related, with Juju and I being a dynamic duo on the court and our dads either taking photos of us or cheering us on together. Ill never forget all the times after our long tournament days or games when we would all go enjoy a meal together, and all the laughter and gossip we shared over those meals. Uncle Bill was a selfless person, always putting his family first and eager to lend a helping hand to anyone. He was never defined by one moment to me, as all my memories with him were filled with laughter and good times. The one specific memory that sticks with me to this day is when we were on the way to a volleyball tournament, and Uncle Bills GPS told us to take a right turn off a bridge, and we joked that the GPS was telling us to take a shortcut. We all laughed so hard we almost cried, and it became an inside joke from then on out. Thank god for Google maps nowadays! Ill really miss Uncle Bill and Ill always cherish the memories we shared. Rest in peace Uncle Bill, youll be deeply missed ♡…. -
To Uncle Bill
Uncle Bill was like a a second dad to me, especially in the 7 years I played volleyball with Juju. He would always drive us to volleyball practices, games, and tournaments, often in the company of my dad too. The four of us were known as the two iconic father-daughter duos at anything volleyball related, with Juju and I being a dynamic duo on the court and our dads either taking photos of us or cheering us on together. Ill never forget all the times after our long tournament days or games when we would all go enjoy a meal together, and all the laughter and gossip we shared over those meals. Uncle Bill was a selfless person, always putting his family first and eager to lend a helping hand to anyone. He was never defined by one moment to me, as all my memories with him were filled with laughter and good times. The one specific memory that sticks with me to this day is when we were on the way to a volleyball tournament, and Uncle Bills GPS told us to take a right turn off a bridge, and we joked that the GPS was telling us to take a shortcut. We all laughed so hard we almost cried, and it became an inside joke from then on out. Thank god for Google maps nowadays! Ill really miss Uncle Bill and Ill always cherish the memories we shared. Rest in peace Uncle Bill, youll be deeply missed ♡…. -
He spared nothing and gave all
William, who we knew as Bill, was taken from us suddenly, and all the feelings that come from that loss are powerful right now. In the fury, confusion and darkness of those feelings, perhaps Bill can provide us some direction, light and perhaps some peace as well. Often, it’s the youngest people in our lives that provide the clearest view of a person. Our son Tristyn, who wasn’t born until two years after we met Bill, wrote recently “I am so grateful that our family was seen as friends to him…we will always feel the same way.” Though we met 21 years ago as dads blessed with spirited, bright daughters that lit up our lives in common, both of us had something else for which we had unconditional love – technology and gadgets. This passion spiraled all the way to the last time I was hanging out with Bill. After coffees, we were sitting in his new electric car; he was giving me the grand tour of all its features and how the battery power was allocated to everything the car could do. At one point he paused and said “In the end, its all about resource management, and I’ve always been into that”. As I think about my friend, I realize this statement may hold a larger truth about him. In a world where all resources are seen as finite, Bill’s entire approach to those he loved was the exact opposite. His care, dedication, integrity and dry sense of… -
Rest in peace, Bill
Bill was a knowledgeable person in various aspects of life. Although not the most talkative in social settings, he effortlessly kept conversations flowing without being overbearing. His gentle yet firm demeanor, constant helpfulness, and underlying cheerfulness were truly remarkable. He showed immense care and sensitivity towards Caroline and was a nurturing father to Juliana. His deep commitment to protecting and caring for his family was always admirable. Bill, you will be greatly missed. -
Rest in peace – Bill
Were fortunated to meet Bill and his family when our daughters where taking dance classes together at preschool back in Beresford Recreation Center. Bill is an all around nice guy. Loving husband and a wonderful father. His smile always lites up the house. Bill well miss you and rest in peace! May and the family -
Thank you
I would like to thank you for always being a devoted husband to my mother and a loving and caring father to my sister. The memories you have left and the lessons you have taught will always live on. You will forever be missed. Rest in peace Ed -
Memories Forever
Playing basketball, football in cherry Street park,playing pool, going to the movies, food,or just hanging out. I will always remember and keep the memories in my heart. My brother, friend. I Miss and Love you. -
Lobsters With William
Before moving to SF, William, within one day, would drive to Maine during lobster season to buy live lobsters. It didn’t matter to him that he woke us up at 3am on a weekday to cook lobsters. He’d say: “Goo Goo (Auntie), let’s have lobsters!” So, I cleaned and steamed lobsters American style. As soon as we finished eating, he’d smile and impishly say “Goo Goo, Cantonese styled lobsters taste better!” After much cajoling, I cooked lobsters Cantonese style. As always, with his smirky smile and laughter, he was right. This was our ritual during Maine lobster season, which was repeated during the Maryland Blue Crab season! We miss and love you! Love Aunt Mary & Uncle Terry -
an all around nice guy .
I remember bill when he visited us as a all around nice guy. he seems to really enjoy good food and family gatherings. I vividly remember after dinner we sat and tipped a couple of beers. then we started shooting the breeze. then he told me whispering secrectly he was one of the head honchos of the chinese mafia. I said no way, but after a while he was pretty convincing . Me being a bit under the influence started to believe him. then my sister fung yee came over an told me he was not ,and he was just having fun. I didnt get to spent much time with bill ,but the few occasions we were together was very relaxing. he was a easy going guy and very easy to talk with. Im sure he will be greatly missed by everyone he associated with. -
"Like a son…thank you for wonderful memories"
When Caroline called to tell me the sad news, it was like I lost a son. I have known William (and still know him…one is never gone) since his grade school years at St. Joseph in Chinatown, NYC. What memories of him and Chun, both always runnning around the Church. Both non-Catholic, and non-Christian, but much more than most. I watched William grow from grade school, to high school, into college and beyond. After I left St. Joseph in 1984 we would meet in the city or they would come to my home in the Bronx. He loved to eat (and could he eat), never saw anyone who could eat like William. At St. Joseph he was my right and left hand. Always by my side and ready to do whatever task I assigned him. Weather it was giving him my walet (only person on the lower east side I would give my walet to) to shop for the gang, keeping an eye on the bingo office, watching the front office…the list is like a litany of devotion and love for his friends and those he truly cared about. He loved our bus trips with the senior citizens of the area and especially loved eating out (which we did often) in the many restaurants inthe area. We hit everyone…not one missed. He was our favorite altar boy (most of our altar boys were non-Catholic), faithful and true. His favorite time was Good Fridays; he would dress in his Xavier ROTC… -
Fond memories
Playing pinball in Joes candy store. Bowling at Bowlmor Lanes. The tons of late night food excursions. All these fond memories I cherish from childhood to adult are embedded in my brain. Will dearly miss you but you will never be forgotten. Love you my brother.
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Always Smiling
I will always remember the late-night Christmas poker games. Bill would arrive with his buddies and with him would be a new energy. It would be his infectious smile and hearty laugh that would fill the other side of the room. My lasting image of him will always be of him smiling. -
Years of answering countless questions and solving a multitude of problems for Cancer Registrars at Sutter Health
Bill has worked with many of us at Sutter Health for years. One of his assigned departments was the Cancer Registry. We had so many IT people come and go but once he got here, things started working so much better. We use a different database and are a small group compared to other departments but Bill was our software guru. If something was not working correctly, a common response was, call Bill, he will know to do. He always took the time to respond, no matter how big or small the problem. There has been an outpouring of shock and sadness from the entire team. He was vital when we consoidated all of the registry databases earlier this year, no small feat! While waiting for him to look into issues, there was a lot of downtime on the phone or Teams. It gave many of us time to chit chat. One person shared memories with him of Cantonese dishes they both ate growing up and trying to re-create them. They shared recipes. We talked about his dog or how the weekend was. I teased him when he put his photo on his Teams profile, it looked a little blurry then I realized it was his drivers license photo. We had a good laugh. We are all going to miss him and are all so very sorry your loss. Sending you our heartfelt condolenses from the entire Cancer Registry team. -
Hilton Head Island, SC Vacation
We had a family vacation at Hilton Head Island, SC; Old Savannah, GA and Charleston, SC. We enjoyed the beach and pool at Hilton Head; we spent a day at Old Savannah and took the trolley ride around town and finished the day with dinner at the Olde Pink House, a Colonial mansion, for an elegant southern cuisine. Our final stop was a visit to Kee & Kittys house in Mt. Pleasant, SC. During our visit we walked around Charleston, SC historic area. We will miss you Bill, but memories of the vacation and all the Christmas eve dinners at our house will remain forever in our heart. Rest in Peace, Pingie
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Best Dinner Ever!!
Evening of pure love…Thank you Bill
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Bill's California Family
We met Bill back in the early 90s through work. We became very good friends when he came out from New York to California, he was like a brother to us. We remember having our old house which needed lots of work. Bill was always the first to volunteer a helping hand. We have so many beautiful family memories, going on vacations together, trying out new restaurants, cooking at home and walking beautiful Taylor to the park. We will miss Bills traditional sticky rice every year for Thanksgiving. Bill was always there for his family and friends. We will miss you Bill. R.I.P. Bill. Love, Carlos, Cindi, Angelina, Analisa & Evan
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Thanksgiving dinner 2018
Well miss you at our yearly Thanksgiving dinner!
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California
This is a memory of your visit to our apartment in Sunnyvale. Madison was just 2 years old. I remember sightseeing and dim sum with you and being chauffeured in the minivan while wine tasting in Napa. I wish we had more time together, Bill. We will miss you. Love, Alex, Laura, Madison, and Abigail.
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Picking us up from the airport, taking us to dinner or during a layover for dinner to drive us back less than three hours later. Just always being good to us with a big smile!
Every time my wife, Samantha, and I would fly out to San Fran, Bill would offer to pick us up at the airport or even drive in from San Mateo to take us to the airport. He was always so good to Sam and I. Hed treat us to dinner at a delicious Italian restaurant so we could carbo load for a triathlon. Shipped our gear back to NY when we flew to Hawaii for our honeymoon. Bill was always so selfless and did it with a smile. He just enjoyed when family came out. I had flown out to California, Lake Tahoe, with my cousins Jason, Derek, and Auntie Wah Wah. On our flight back to NY, we had a three or four hour layover in San Fran. Julianna was maybe 2, our faces were swollen due to the elevation at Lake Tahoe. Bill picked us up from SFO during a 3-4 hour layover to go San Mateo to his and Auntie Fung Yees house, eat dinner, I also remember a cake. Then Bill drove us back to the airport for us to fly back to NY. Bill will be missed! I hope you are at peace and you and my father are smiling down us, not driving everyone around and finally relaxing. Rest in peace Uncle Bill Love, Darren, Samantha, Mason and Hazel
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7 years of Volleyball together
We first met Bill, Caroline, and Juju in 2003 when Juju and our daughter Heather attended the same preschool. We were all too busy back then and did not get a chance to get to know each other well. In 6th grade when both Heather and Juju started playing volleyball at school, this began our 7-year journey of volleyball together. We spent lots of time together watching the girls practice, and many many weekends together carpooling, tailgating, watching their games, and eating. Bill is the most prepared person we know. No matter what issue we ran into, he had a solution from his trusted backpack. He is the real McGyver. We miss you! You will live in our hearts. The Chao family (Osman, Sylvia, Heather, and Darius)
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Dreams
It was Christmas time in the early 00s and we were playing X-Box in the basement of my parents place. Chung was there. Maybe she was cradled somewhere upstairs or maybe she wasnt, but regardless, Julianna was the topic of conversation. Would she be strong, like the technicolor digital fighters? Of course, he would make certain of it. Nobody would dare mess with Juju. Though I have only seen Julianna kick in the vague direction of New York pigeons, he did not stop dreaming for her. Pushups and protein supplements expressed his love. The regimen was less strict for Taylor, for whom he kept lists of scenic north Cali dog parks. For me, he offered his room, along with trips to In-N-Out Burger and the Stanford mall. In addition to scenic dog parks. Once he remarked that he kept a journal when he was younger, which surprised me but was perfectly in character. It would be interesting, he mused, to look back. Much later, it occurred to me that he was often tired when I saw him, and that Bill, always dutiful yet perennially grumpy, might be more often the jokey teaser had I caught him on days he got enough sleep. Though frequently monotone, there was no doubt of the lively internal life. Certainly, there that was a period when, for work, he kept late hours, so that he and I only crossed paths when his energy was lowest. So secretly, but too recently, I resolved to get to…
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Our Beginnings
I have too many memories to share about my true love, my husband, my best friend, my soulmate and father of our daughter. Ill tell about our early years. Bill and I worked together in NYC. One day I come to work and see a bunch of fresh blue daisies on my desk. Who buys blue daisies? Attached to the flowers was a card. It said Dinner Friday night? Pick you up at 8! He was so sure I would say yes. I did. Bill picked me up on time in his car. To my surprise and delight he took me to the Windows of The World Restaurant on top of the World Trade Center. What a wonderful beautiful dinner it was. Bill must have spent his entire paycheck on that dinner. I thought during dinner he was the most interesting, smart, fun guy Ive ever dated. The conversation flowed easily with intimacy, fun and laughter. The chemistry was defintely there. After dinner we went back to his car. He drove a few blocks away from the World Trade Center buldings. The streets are empty after 7 PM. Bill stops the car and parks. He pulls out a boombox from his car just like that Say Anything movie scene. He plays Its A Wonderful World by Sam Cooke. Then he leads me to a slow dance under the street lamp, in the dark, in middle of the financial district under the summer stars. To the tune of an oldie. What…
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